omika dubey Bhopal India
Explosive minds and silent hearts
Everyone is worried or anxious or down from time to time, this is so normal. but understand if you start experiencing this, all the time for every silly thing then this becomes a problem not just for you but also for your beloved ones in upcoming time.
Why do we start experiencing such things? How we automatically indulge ourselves in such things? How we can overcome these? and many many more such small sentenced questions hit us when we here of the person suffered this and at last loses the battle of life but we don’t get afraid of such things that they may happen with us rather we move forward saying “I will be able to fight it, the person who committed suicide was weak that’s why he/she took this major step.” I appreciate your will power but also keep in mind that you can’t say anything about anyone, and speak after you make sure that this won’t affect anyone.
Don’t wait for the things to happen but you prepare yourself in such a way that difficult situations also turn into simple ones. Now the question that arises in our minds is How? So the answer is as simple as your this one-word question but of-course difficult when we have to perform practical and that is don’t solve your problems on your own which means never see yourself alone, don’t hesitate in asking for help because keep in mind that asking for help is not a sign of weakness while its a sign of strength. It is not necessary that the person with whom you have shared and asked for the help will definitely come up with the solution you want but will definitely calm your mind which will help you in making a harmless decision. See, few common reasons due to which a person comes into the stage of depression are-success reasons, loneliness, family and social environment, money crisis and hardly some more but the way to overcome all reasons is support from your beloved ones, their love and their suggestions for you. I know this is not easy even the toughest thing it is to do that time but believe me its the most important and powerful way to fight against it.
“We only prepare ourselves for success and not for failure.” The most popular line on the internet today and this makes sense also, it should be popular not in just writings but also in practical life and everyone’s practical life doesn’t have the failure option. Now again we come up with the difficulty in finding the solution for this problem that how can we prepare our minds in such a way that are not acceptable by the society and this is also something which will not be liked by ourselves so obviously, why will I be preparing myself for failure when I m always successful and have never seen failure. This is not something you should be proud but this thinking is actually making you weak and taking you far from reality because you can only know your today but not tomorrow and as every coin has its two sides so don’t go with only positive possibilities as it is only giving you happiness for successful tenure which can be given by everyone and deep down some are familiar also with this fact but can’t accept because the arrival of such thoughts is enough to upset your mind and demotivation. To remain healthy we have to eat green vegetable which sometimes doesn’t taste good but for the betterment, we eat it so in some way for the betterment of your life you need to do this and this cannot be done in one day or two hence, you need to prepare yourself beforehand and now coming to the society, So you don’t have to shout and prepare your mind for this, tell me that will you be able to hide your failure when you really fail or will this preparation of your mind is going to harm your success, so definitely no, in fact, when you will not be able to bear both the pain together one, is your own and another of the people gossips so that time this is going to help in keeping you stable by decreasing the level of your pain.
at last, without adding any used and impossible advice I end it by saying that take every step as your parents do that is as they do everything after thinking of their children the same way you make your decision keeping them in mind because they will only be the one who won’t be able to bear that pain which in actual is going to be more and more painful than your failure so don’t take the decision on your own when your mind is explosive that is when you are not in the condition of seeing any harm and when your heart is silent that is when you don’t care about the people you loved so much in entire life.