Suranjana.N.S Chennai India
"IF YOU WANT TO BE THE BEST,DO THE THINGS THAT OTHER PEOPLE AREN'T WILLING TO DO". A positive and motivational thought is very important for a person to succeed. Life consists of both positive and negative things, you must accept the positive things and learn to ignore the negative things , because negativity will never give you positive life.
We come across many kinds of people in our life in which You must never forget three types of people:-
1. The one who helped you in difficult times.
2. The one who left you in difficult times.
3. The one who had put you in difficult times.
"YOU HAVE TO BE ODD TO BE NUMBER 1" You must believe in yourself, you must never give-up, when someone says that you are a waste and you can't achieve , remember that you have only one life to live and you must WIN, because the greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do.
Success doesn't come to you, you must be the one who works hard to achieve success. You must quit quitting when things get hard. Tough times doesn't last, being patient is the one thing that matters the most. Patience is the key to success. Whoever the person could be , being patient and pushing ourselves further will bring us success at the right time."The harder the battle, sweeter will be the victory"
So the conclusion is that you need not lookup for a good time to start over you need to have a new mindset to Be strong to face any challenges or obstacles to win! Not all people are deserved to be the winner. A winner is the person who is disciplined, determined, used the opportunities that were given and he is the person who knew TIME MANAGEMENT!
Remember "Lost time is never found again".
THE DRIFT IN RELATIONSHIPS AMONG FAMILY MEMBERS
"EVERYONE NEEDS A HOUSE TO LIVE IN,BUT A SUPPORTIVE FAMILY IS WHAT BUILDS A HOME". There can be no other appropriate example to prove the saying "Time changes everything". The shrink of family, From joint family to nuclear family and the nuclear family to the one where everyone are busy using the phones with the lack of communication in most of the times .
The ways of communication among the family members has changed over time, In the Earlier times people used to communicate directly from Person to person since everyone used to live in the same house , which changed to posting the letters as people in the family started to move to other places ,which then changed to calls or texts , and finally now everyone has drifted apart being very selfish. SELFISHNESS is one of the main reasons for a family to drift apart.
"Families should be like the compass that guides us whenever we need help". The memories which we make with our family is everything. The family members should be the ones who brings comfort to eachother in the times of need.
Each and every member in the family are deserved to be respected, it doesn't matter whether they are wealthy or poor, more educated or less educated, job or jobless, because the one thing which unites us is FAMILY moreover we all are HUMANS!
NO FAMILIES ARE PERFECT, we argue,we fight, we even stop talking to eachother at times,but in the end a family is family. The love should always be there from our hearts.
So the conclusion is that no matter what, everyone in a family should be united and they should never giveup on one another. Everyone should show care and concern to others , and should feel free to talk about any problems and try to solve them instead of fighting and drifting apart."UNITY IS STRENGTH, DIVISION IS WEAKNESS". Communication on a regular basis is very important to be united and happy in a family!❤
THE RECENT CHANGE IN THE WAYS OF LEARNING AND IT'S SIDE EFFECTS AMONG THE CHILDREN
"An investment in knowledge pays the best interest"
As we all know the pandemic situation which we are facing now has changed all our lives from leading a normal life to a complicated life from the basic needs of the availability of food till the education we gain.
Learning has become online. A great applause to teachers who are taking great efforts to teach the students online through ZOOM app , recording and uploading in YOUTUBE and also using other social media.
The school organizations had created a proper schedule to be followed for each and every subject in most of the schools especially for higher classes i.e., from 9th grade to 12th grade. The students sit in front of the laptops or phones for 10 hours in a day which includes school classes,tutions, other private institutions like Aakash,Allen etc...which train the students to write entrance exams.
This has caused many side effects to the students HEALTH. Studying online for very long hours has led to STRESS AND ANXIETY among students. A teacher who is attempting to teach without inspiring the pupil who is with a desire to learn is hammering on cold iron. This is not about blaming the teacher teaching and giving assignments,it is the students who are getting affected because after studying for long time a student's mind gets tired and students will not be able to understand anything further even if they are trying to understand. i.e., simply mind has become saturated.
"THE MIND AND BODY ARE NOT SEPERATE ,WHAT AFFECTS ONE AFFECTS THE OTHER". Stress is the trash of modern life. Stressful mind among students due to use laptops and phones for long has led to many problems like headache,eye pain, feeling tired and lethargic most of the times, not able to learn and think effectively and backpain because of sitting in the same place for long hours without proper rest.
The one who has health has hope and the one who has hope has everything. Calm mind brings inner strength and self-confidence which is very important to lead a healthy,positive and calm lifestyle.
It would be nice if the educational institutions plan and implement a schedule to students so that the students get enough rest which will not affect their health and mind.
So the conclusion is that learning as well as taking care of our health and body is very important. It is very important to Eat healthy foods, drink lots of water to keep us hydrated, and last but not the least to get enough sleep which make our mind feel fresh and ourselves to be happy.