VIKRAM SINGH Delhi India
Our Customs
The Veil and Burka; what could be behind! Naturally some women. In my country mostly the local folk of the village wear big clothes on their head and cover their face with a veil, before I thought we are behind and not a modern country. I used to feel that I am living in a village, and a very backward class, but I saw that the Gulf countries too cover their faces, and with a huge gown like cloths. It is tradition to cover the face, and the amazing issue shocked me that it is compulsory too, if some not wear the Burka, the woman gets punishment too, and neglected from the society.
Alike, in India too, in villages if the woman does not cover their face with veil, she has to get punishment and neglection too. Although this is different that veil is the symbol of respect, to the older peoples the woman is supposed to cover the face with veil. But here the amazing fact is that when the girl gets married than only in her husband's home the girl has to veil. Although much I dont aware, but as i seen in the Muslim countries mostly woman use to wear the Burka.
But what truly affects the scientific fact of the Burka and Veil, are that if some women cover their face, they can keep beauty of their face, and dust never can get touched. In the Veil they hide the Beautiful face, so others' eyes don't catch them.
If I go to criticise the Burka and the Veil traditions, the weak point is that any can pretend to be behind the Burak and Veil, but we have to believe the facts of the customs.
Culture and Rituals
In the European culture are all open minded and straight forward, while here in India, we have been moulded to be chastefull and faithful to towards our family. Emotional toward our childrens, making the career of the childs becomes our main motive in life. Struggle and more struggle to bring our child on the top. Knotted wife with moulding and given pattern too must to oblige, otherwise system developers never allow to live peacefully, like in the Gulf countries must obey Jihadi’s rules.
The husbands keep chasing the woman, whether the woman feels or not for the man, either true to the man or not, but must to be the true husband. While in the western countries, till you are satisfied with the woman or woman with man lives together, otherwise get separated. I am not cursing any system, just defining the women caste of Indian mentality, as women behind many NGO come and well wishers come together, but if man comes up, all start saying.
Alike in the case of our childs we made all efforts to be man of perfect quality, whether the child care in old days or not doesn't matter. While in advanced countries the mother and father never care, born, if possible grows otherwise the governing system takes care in the shelters. As in the developing countries, unmarried couples too can give a birth, and no bondage of marrying.
One more angle I would like to describe of the woman, that in the western countries, dating, love, hugging, meeting too open and no rule there to mind, while in India all above not allowed, it is different the youngness consumer stealthy doing many things, because our system does not bear adolescent.
Anyhow, just some thought to understand the culture and traditions, to live life, I am not criticising anyone. The main issue is how we live a happy and flourishing lifestyle. Thanks.
Fantasy and dreams must for life. Without dreams we start feeling dull. If we make some goal and targets, we have to achieve at some stage of life. Goods aspect and angle too, for future to feel good.
Childhood is the stage where all start moulding towards what our parents want to make us. While teen age in no body try to understand the life future, only joly and in any case want to enjoy the time, don’t think about the future. Working stage start only thinks to make lifestyle better and better. When we start running toward the mature stage, start thinking what could be next.
Means at the middle stage the thoughts start coming, how would be our next stage of life. Only routine and drinking eating gives us a bore like circumstances, if we plan and master plan for the next stages, how good, thus we start feeling enthusiasm and feel happiness for the coming days. The master plans for the future, what more we can add to our lifestyle, what new could be which fill our mind with satisfaction and quench, can bring us out of the boring and dull life. Also we can bring more sweetness and softening in the relations, because others too feel that the person has a long future sight and plans. Thus as per my experience and thoughts it is must to be happy to make future plans, whether middle age or young.
If I give my personal thoughts, it is a must for me now, to make a target to live the life, otherwise I start feeling depression toward life. This is because I made many goals, to travel abroad, buy a big car, and would like a group of intellectual people. One more topic I would like to mention that I want to be more romantic with my wife. Anyhow rest in the next. Thanks.
Many diseases and many options to cure. But if the word comes ‘ownness’, looks disease in somebody's mind, as finding one's ownness is very difficult and even no medicine. If some body tasted the taste of ownness, it is vary difficult to find ownness, if lost.
Mother, father give us true affection and grow us with true love. If we try to find the same kind of ownness in other than blood relation is vary complicated. Although mostly complementary and satisfied too with knotted wives, but as my experience, and felt is falsehood, falsely, extravaganza only, just show love, no ownness you could find in the love of the woman. They are lucky if they feel trueness, truly what a man needs to live life. But if some one deep by heart felt the ownness of the love, compassion, and got, might feel the same.
One angle of feeling I would like to define here that if some are hygienic, well dressed, good look, either male or female, may feel attraction in each other, and if the chemistry match, one can truly understand each other, may ownness arise, but keeping the strength upto long time, looks little unbelievable, if stay upto long too good, but mostly collapsed after few meetings.
The ownness in real brother and sister cannot be ignored. If they are in blood relation, mostly felt and missed too if not talk upto long.
If I say that one's ownness is a permanent body and love, affection are trivial. Although must for life affection and love, but true deepness of our ownness really mind us.
If not found any remedy or options, make a habit to live with, intellectual use to say. Expert saying that make
part of life of watching and fear, that the Corona Virus, not saying to go, and destroying day by day the peoples.
It is true too, we must face the circumstances. If warm weather, we suppose to face and keep trying to buy AC, as
cooler only diminish the hot, if we have fan, we try to buy cooler. If nothing couldnt baught we have to live in
hot climate. If the topography not soothing us, we changs the state also. Alike we suppose to live in weather of
virus of the Corona. But in the seasion of Virus, which spreading all around where to go, only get satisfied that
make a habit to live with circumtances.
First time in the life or eras, the kind of virus grown in the societies. Peoples trying to avoid to meet their own,
near and dear. Because of fear, as the virus spread by touch, possible transmitted to each other. Everyone lossing
faith in each other. The cruel virus looking examining the ownness. Some not meeting their own peoples as
they love them, but some dont want to meet that life much than the relations.
In begining was saying when hot season come, the virus will be destroyed. Still in 47 degree temparature spreading.
Alcohol effect stop the virus spreading, wine and bear shops opened, but as it is. Every precaution has been taken,
from face mask, hand sanitizers to virus disinfectant. Extra cleaning in the homes, bathing of extra burden, washing
hand many time in the day, hands looking getting squized. Talking to some unknown person, also a hazard in
present time, upon face covered with mask, also a big horror like scene, whom we talking and who could be other
person. Distancing also one of the part to avoid the virus, but some rude spoiling the others also.
In all above case and circumstance we have to live life, must have to work for livelihood. Therefore except working
we have to take care and save us from the virus, so that we do not get infected. Littled teaching of precaution also
useful, although many organization and the Governments trying their best to save the peoples life. It is our duty
and rights too, to be literate citizens.
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The God Power or Muscle Power or Logic Power, which one on believe. The God everyone believes that exist.
But Muscle power with some group of peoples realise that suppose to follow their rule, otherwise The God
never come to rescue. If the God saves us, why not face the scene, and left us to die. Although I am not neglecting the God powers, just innocent curiosity come to my mind, if
listening please forgive me, and guide to flourish in the life ways.
The Logic somewhere give us life, logic to believe in the life, logic of the God existance. But only logics, sometimes
we finds ourselve mesh in the situations. As logic power to bow in front of the macho men.
If I give my personal opinions, I believe in the God, Believe in the God, I truly feels, that the
God somewhere watching us, and respectfully's uncountable memory power, keeping our deeds, works, data like
as in the computer. I am comparing the Power, please Thy respectfully dont mind, as I am innocent and only way
aware of writing the curious aspects.
Although some sources says, as thoughts comes, that the God punishes those,who destroy others willingly.
Although even innocent way damaging, even innocent punishment given. If someone think that one can save himself
from the God, never think, would get punishment for their misdeeds.
For some time forget the God existance, but written material on the religious and Spiritual topics, gives and moulds
us somewhere to live a good life. If think and study the Spirituality, we finds that the God exist, and religious
books too shows the way how to live life, and how in old eras was the life styles.
Believe or do not believe on any existance or religious or spirituality, but true spirit is that the education moulds us
live a life, as it comes, if the brain and body accompany us, and who learns what becomes the same. It is the
the teachings of the teachers, education which gives and shows us the way how to live the life. But in any case
we have to believe in the God. If someone believe in the God, follow the God rules, as reads in the books and
in saying that true spirit to believe in the God, never harm anyone, in any case.
Thanks
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THE FEELING OF THE BORDOM OR FREEDOM.
'Life time Award' for the couples and families, if takes the simpleton angle of the lockdown. Although
all below the black cloud like living in fear. No pulling No pushing, no compulson to go out. No one
could call even by the 'thoughts'. No one could pass the mind to any, as all has to live inside
First time in the life possible got time to live together in the homes, although possible may
lived together upto long time, but from out side no signals, if any signals would be a crime, happening first time,
because the curfew law not allowed to come out any on the roads, or from the houses. Although even looking off line no online. No signals and connection with
any server, only you and me, and my family.
My family too, too small, me, wife and my son, first time in the life lived together so long. If
I say first time I got the time to understand my wife. The wives without husband, from morning
to evening or till late night, now felt the company of the husband. What could be behind the
husbands, till late night, might be missing the husbands, or possible now in the lockdown
fissing, no body knows, but just feels, and thoughts comes to the mind and the brain.
One joke I listened on the net, that father lying on the sofa, the little child ask the mom, that
who is the person lying on the bed, seen in the family picture album, first watching so long in the home what could be truness
of the fact, what one can understand, anyhow just fun and joke. We all enjoying the lockdonw
like holidays, but the fearfull and full of horror circumstances. Just funny thought in the words.
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DELHI TODAY
Delhi too calm, all living inside with the thought "Stay home, Stay safe". Lockdown 3.0 in progress,
no body allowed to come out, if any found outside, the police and military force helping them to
to bring back to home. Many as seen on TV, internet, media, due terror not coming on out of the
home, as forces hitting and beating, sometimes beastly too, without asking any reason. Although it
is must too, to stay inside.
as around the world the virus widening, here too, the terror of the disease fatal. As per news on the
computer, mobiles, TV, new papers, the virus taken in the grip around 70K peoples. Although mortality,
our medical doctors, staff trying to save the patients, vary less. If compare to the other country we,
Delhites feeling relax.
Many NGO, individuals, coming out as Worriers, to help the peoples, physically, as well as with other
assisting need. As aware poor category; who earn daily and eats, peoples counting vary big, therefore
our government system providing them food and many free grocessary and items. Even NGO and
individuals also giving the food and other items to the poor peoples. Sanitizers and mask are become
compulsory here as at other places.
in the Lockdonw 2.0 nothing was possible fully blocked. But in the Lockdown 3.0 some manufacturing
units allowed to work with less then half the manpower. Some other offices also allowed to work
with less then half staff. Online companies and online selling are allowed. E-pass facility available here.
annousment of boosting economy, the PM budget scheme giving strength to the peoples. Little relax
wave in the peoples who staying inside, that possiblity of life. As Lockdown 3.0 upto 17 of May, 2020,
no body know what would be after the date. As the virus still alive, source saying that make a habit to
to live with virus and keep trying to avoid the disease alike other diseases. Anti virus vaccine for
every one expecting.
anyhouse have to have face the life and come out, out of the houses. All making mind and demanding,
that suppose given permission to work and breath in the open. But as per the need, expecting
Lockdown 4.0 will be announced with relaxations.
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Lockdown, lock down possible. All around the world war against the virus called the Corona. No gun, weapons, bombs but still fighting and struggle for saving life. In the circumstance our weapon are anti-virus vaccine, which is every doctor, country trying to find out, although the medical trying their best to survive the patience. But horror and brutality are spreading all around.
Spiritual group of peoples praying, lightening the candle, worshiping to the God to finish the terror of the virus disease. All compelled to live inside the doors. Lockdown in police, force playing their role vary well, to stop the unsocial element and innocent peoples from coming out from homes, as they might get infected. Whole government applauding and appreciating the medical peoples boldness and courage who trying to cure the infected peoples, by flower unfurling by the helicopters, airoplanes. Insurance and rewards schemes to stay on the jobs also one of the encouraging process of the governments.
We peoples suppose to oblige the system, sanitization, hand washing, cleaning, and staying inside. Althouggh many problems arising living inside till long time, but we have to bear to save our lifes.
Lastly I too would like to pray to the Almighty please keep grace on us and save us from the clamity, as in the whole world all waiting when lockdown open and lock downs.
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Society in trend, any new style and culture spread immediately, while old pattern and permanent trend left behind. if the follower of the old taught pattern not follows, start feeling hurt. although old education gives us life and life styles. But if compare the new generation, new generation soon start indulging in new trend. the education just becomes the teaching of words in talking, moulding in the way that get degree and vocublary and live life in your own way. Selfishness, sex, drugs, no caring old, etc. are developing, and the virus of these above spread so fast cannot imaginged. without careing of any, the new trend comes in.
Whether forged trend or own gut for moulding since kid. In any case all has to come up to protect the cultural traits. As all old or in their mid feels disappearance of the ownness. This is also possible divide and rule policy ways some want to rule the society, and we are unable to watch the concept. anyhow rest in the next.
Vikram
